John Bunyan once said, “You have not lived until you have helped someone who can never repay you.”
Could you believe that? Could you live and work and exist with that kind of mentality.
What it is … is “love without condition.” It’s “unconditional love.” It’s something we all long for but find very elusive. But oh … when it does happen, it’s an amazing, heart-rending, life-changing experience that we find difficult to live without. It’s good for the giver and the receiver … “when we GET IT!”
Operation: Brother’s Keeper is Salt & Light’s initiative to coordinate, communicate and connect ways to live out John Bunyan’s quote. Specifically, it’s about recognizing that “we’re all in this together,” and God surely meant business when responding to Cain’s questions, “Am I my brother’s keeper?” (read the story if you need a reminder)
As we face some pending uncertain and unstable economic times, we will surely see more and more people “down on their luck” and in need of “love without conditions” and “help that cannot be repaid.” Speaking as someone who has received a great deal of “help” in my life, I can attest to the tremendous impact those who lived out John Bunyan’s ideal, had on my life. One of the greatest friends I ever had helped me a lot when my daughters were younger, and I said to him, “I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to pay you back.”
He said, “You will pay me back when you see someone else in need and find a way to help them.” And so … life goes on … and that is “living.”
And Jesus was more than clear about this in Matthew 25 as He discusses pending judgment of the sheep and the goats. Please read:
The Sheep and the Goats
31″When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his throne in heavenly glory. 32All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.
34″Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’
37″Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’
40″The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’
41″Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’
44″They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’
45″He will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’
46″Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.”
As a result of a recent project to help meet the needs of a local emergency (homeless) shelter, there have been many asking, “What else can I do?” The initial project was a simple “towel drive” for the shelter — a project that, once communicated, seemed to take on a life of its own and thus far, more than 150 towels have been collected and given to the shelter. Additionally, some have stepped in to help provide the financial means for a family with five children to get out of the shelter and into an apartment. Also, several families, local businesses and churches have discovered the need and now taken the opportunity to prepare and serve meals at the shelter (which by the way offers temporary refuge from the cold for 40 people who are homeless).
Still, there are folks who are turned away (for lack of space) … and other needs that can only be met by those who can adopt John Bunyan’s philosophy about “really living” and God’s intent for us to help and care for the “least of these.” Therefore, the following is provided as suggestions, ideas or ways that you can personally become involved in ministering to the poor, unemployed and/or homeless in your local community. If you would like to participate in any such projects as a “co-op” with others, please feel free to contact Carole Hicks at Chicks63@gmail.com to make connections or to share other opportunities.
This list will also be updated as information becomes available, so please check back often, or to receive timely updates, send Carole an email request.
- Feed My Sheep: Suppertime comes around daily and supper needs to be served at the Cleveland Emergency Shelter (and other shelters around the country) every evening around 6:00 PM. Groups, (churches, families, clubs, businesses, friends, small groups, individuals) can call Jamie Gregg at 478-1458 to sign up for a date to provide such a meal. It need not be elaborate … casseroles, soups, chili, sandwiches, home-cooking, breakfast for supper, spaghetti, meatloaf, whatever. But there needs to be enough for everyone … which means a bit more than just leftovers. After you sign up for your date, simply call Jamie a day or two before and find out how many guests he is anticipating … and prepare your meal accordingly. (usually utensils, plates, bowls, etc., are provided by the shelter)
Jamie is presently making out the calendar for 2009, so calling now would give plenty of time to pull your plan and team together, and hopefully create commitments to participate on a consistent basis. (i.e. once a month, or every other week, etc.)
Incidentally, Jamie did share that Sundays are a day when rarely anyone brings food for the guests … this might be a good opportunity for Sunday Schools, small groups and others to get the “ox out of the ditch.”
- Man vs. Wild: We all see “them” at the off-ramps, or intersections or wherever there’s traffic congestion. Where we might not see them is in abandoned buildings, under bridges/underpasses, back alleys and underneath shrubs and trees. Homeless people … people holding signs, asking for money or food, or work. Our hearts are tendered and yet, there is some trepidation about whether this person is “truly” homeless or just making a good day’s wage working the off-ramp. Some hand out money through a slightly rolled-down window … while others hold back in lieu of the idea that they’d just spend the money on liquor or drugs. It’s hard to know what to do … especially when you are not prepared to minister.
- Here’s an idea that is a great personal or family ministry project … Survival Kits for the Homeless. Take a back-pack (old, new, slightly worn, doesn’t matter) and fill it with items that will genuinely help someone “survive” in a homeless state. This survival kit would not be money … but it would contain legitimate items that any person could use. Here are some suggested items to include: snacks that contain protein and carbohydrates (canned tuna (with pop top), peanut butter crackers, beef jerky or sticks, energy bars, granola, etc); small cans of fruit, raisins, dried fruit; bottled water; gift cards to Cracker Barrel, McDonalds, Hardees or Waffle House (restaurants that are often near the Interstate or are in every town). Gift cards are not cash and can only be spent for food/drink — so you’ll feel better about its potential use. Other items that will fit and fare well in a back-pack: a rain poncho, a compact umbrella, caps and toboggans, an inexpensive air mattress (sold at Dollar stores and Wal-mart) that can be easily blown up and deflated again to fit in the back-pack; clean socks; thermal underwear, handkerchief, gloves; a towel/washcloth; bar of soap; toothbrush and toothpaste, lip balm, lotion, sunscreen, band-aids, Neosporin, Tylenol (even travel size); chewing gum, hard candy; fix a zip-lock baggie with small packets of salt, pepper, sugar, a few plastic forks and spoons; a cigarette lighter; a small flashlight or penlight; a small-cell battery powered radio with ear-buds; a pre-paid phone card; some stamped envelopes with paper and pens, or stamped post-cards; a good book to read like Louis L’Amour or a Grisham novel; (go to the library and buy a used book for a quarter to put in there); puzzle books, Sunday school books or a Bible. You might also include a card with information about a local shelter, soup kitchen or medical, church/missions group that would help in an emergency.
The idea is not to make it so loaded down that the poor soul could not carry it … but to provide some necessary and personal items that might bless and help to survive until the next stop on the journey.
Place the back-pack in your car … and you’ll be prepared to minister the next time God brings someone less fortunate across your path. You could also fill such a back-pack and take to the Shelter for the manager to give to those who are leaving the Shelter or are turned away. This would be a great on-going family project — then every time you give away your Survival Kit — you go back on mission to build another one until God opens up another door to minister. Always take the Survival Kit with you in your car … when travelling … and it might even come in handy to minister to yourself in times of emergency or breakdown.
- Teach a Man to Fish: Without a doubt, there are people who just won’t work. But there are also people who just can’t find work. Someone could be in so deep a hole of despair that they could not possibly pull themselves out to the point where he/she could make an impression on potential employers. Check your own attitudes about the homeless and answer the question … “what would keep me from hiring him or her?” Some of those reasons might be legitimate. However, some may simply be based upon stereotypes you developed, and your own fears of what you “just do not know.”
We’ve got to hold fast to the ideal that people want an “honest wage for honest work.“ That’s how this country should function, and what true success is.
In these pressing times, it might be difficult for any one business to commit to employing “the homeless” — but we don’t know what the future holds for any of us and “any of us” could find ourselves without work, and possibly having to learn and do something different.
Empathy for just situations is a necessity – that is why we give out fish for a day.
But “teaching a man to fish” will help him help himself and another … so life goes on.
A personal prayer of mine is asking and seeking God’s direction as to how I can come alongside those who want to work … and help them find some kind of work. This may involve conducting some kind of training; it may involve helping those who need a little boost of confidence, with resumes, clothing, presentation, or transportation; it may involve making connections with people who have work that needs to be done and asking, “will you help this man fish for a while?”
These are just three different ways that God has revealed to me how we can help each other … and be “Salt & Light.” Operation: Brother’s Keeper will continue to be a category on this site, featuring stories and ideas of ministering and even eliminating homelessness (and hopelessness) in the Ocoee Region. Won’t you join me in this mission?
Email: Chicks63@gmail.com
